Concrete
At the end you have your snapshot: six axes, for example between closeness and personal space. You see where something is moving right now, and which honest question follows from it.
Relationship clarity, starting now
18 questions, about 8 minutes. An honest snapshot of your needs. On your own or together.

Your first step
Get clear, at last, about what really matters to you in your relationship. The Relationship Compass helps you put into words the needs you may not have been able to name until now. You also receive follow-up questions that invite you to keep thinking. All of it is free for you.
At the end you have your snapshot: six axes, for example between closeness and personal space. You see where something is moving right now, and which honest question follows from it.
Every relationship is unique. That is why Elisabeth uses respectful language, without labels or diagnoses. However you live your relationship.
No account, no waiting for an appointment: you start right now and are done in about 8 minutes.
Going round in circles with your relationship questions? Sometimes it is not the answer that is missing, but an understanding of what is actually happening in your relationship right now. Answer three questions and receive your personal Clarity Letter within 24 hours, with Elisabeth's professional perspective. It helps you understand your relationship situation better, recognise connections and develop new perspectives for your next steps. Personal and individual, written by Elisabeth Rieder, state-certified psychosocial counsellor in Austria.
€99 incl. 20% VAT, for individuals or couples.
Frequently asked questions
No. The Relationship Compass and the Clarity Letter can offer orientation for you and your relationship with yourself, whatever your relationship status. They can also support you if you want to make sense of a past relationship or work out how you want to shape relationships in the future.
No. You can use the Relationship Compass and the Clarity Letter separately, on your own or together. If you complete the Compass first and order from your result, your snapshot is included in your Clarity Letter.
You can order a shared Clarity Letter directly. If you complete the Compass together first and order from your comparison, your shared snapshot is included too. Each person then answers three open questions separately. Elisabeth uses these answers to prepare your shared Clarity Letter.
The Relationship Compass is free. The Clarity Letter costs €99 incl. 20% VAT, whether you order it for yourself or for the two of you.
You receive a personal written perspective on your situation, which Elisabeth prepares individually from your answers. You can read the letter at your own pace, return to it whenever you like and keep reflecting on it.
A first draft is created with the help of AI. Every Clarity Letter is then read by Elisabeth personally, checked professionally, revised, and only then sent to you.
No. The letter is a personal aid to reflection. It can explain connections, help sort your thoughts and offer suggestions for your next step. It does not replace a longer counselling process, psychotherapy or crisis support.
Not an emergency service. If you're in immediate danger, call your local emergency number. To talk during an acute crisis: 142 in Austria, 0800 111 0 111 in Germany or 143 in Switzerland, free and around the clock.